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vanessahubbardprevisic
Mar 21, 20221 min read
How to not lose it (when your child is losing it)
Practicing holding space for our children to have big feelings while also holding space for ourselves is important.
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vanessahubbardprevisic
Nov 1, 20211 min read
You are not failing
You are not failing.
You are not defective.
You are enough.
You are a good and loving mom.
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vanessahubbardprevisic
Oct 25, 20212 min read
The stakes are high!
We parents can get very caught up in trying to be perfect. We don’t even know we are trying to be perfect; we just feel bad all the time...
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vanessahubbardprevisic
Oct 22, 20212 min read
His pain was no longer her failure
Marigold’s son, James, was articulate and extremely sensitive. He regularly had jumbo reactions to junior stimuli.
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vanessahubbardprevisic
Oct 7, 20211 min read
Do you feel judged by other parents?
If you are a parent feeling lonely and overwhelmed, especially in your relationship with your children, I can help.
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vanessahubbardprevisic
Jan 4, 20212 min read
How can I help?
I've been asking myself “How can I help?” since the pandemic started. The answer came, of course, in unexpected ways.
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